Dream from K B…
In the first dream I am going out on a date with a man I am attracted to and that I find attractive as well. He has shiny brown hair and tanned skin and is young and healthy. I am also young and healthy and feeling carefree. We are out at a restaurant on a warm night. The color of the dream is a warm caramel, browns and sepia tones. It feels warm and sensual. Yet I think about my (real life) boyfriend and realize that although I’m having fun, I really do prefer my boyfriend. I am aware that I am cheating and go back home to my boyfriend.
About a week later I have another dream that I am dating a man that I don’t actually know. He is young and has blond, shiny hair. I am also young and carefree and we are in a busy mall together. This time I don’t think about my boyfriend and the concept of cheating does not come up.
Dreamer’s Associations
Being with these men gives me a sense of excitement and aliveness. They are not just healthy and good looking, but also charismatic and energetic. Being out in the world in a restaurant or a shopping mall makes me feel part of the world. I don’t think much about it, I am in it and I like it.
Dreamer’s Bio
I am a yoga teacher. I generally don’t like crowds and prefer quiet activities and gentle souls. I am in a relationship with a man who is kind, attentive, serious and down to earth. He is a police detective. We are both in our early 40′s. I used to be a world traveller and very much footloose and fancyfree but I wanted to settle down. People use to think of me as pretty, creative, outgoing, exciting and fearless. Now they see me as wise, motherly, stable and grounded. I don’t have children but am thinking about having a child with my boyfriend. We are both divorced and have been profoundly hurt by our ex-spouses. He is truly wonderful but I was not used to dating his physical type. I really had to learn to look beyond the type that I thought was not for me. I love him but am still afraid of admitting it. Born 28th Sept, 1968.